Left home country, went north to region of Tyre and Sidon – in modern day Lebanon.
Home to Syrians and Canaanites – the ones the Jews kicked out of their Promised Land.
Looked for solitude – he didn’t want anyone to know he was there
His reputation preceded him
He was approached by non-Jewish woman. A gentile, a woman, probably Greek. She approached this Jewish Rabbi
She wanted help for her demonised daughter.
A problem she could not solve herself.
Jesus at first ignored her
She persisted – as any mother would
Disciples urged Jesus to send her away
He responded “I was sent only to the lost sheep of Israel”
She kept at him: “Lord, help me!” she said.
Jesus said, ‘It is not right to take the children’s bread and toss it to the dogs.’
To be likened to a dog – middle-eastern insult!
It might have been OK for a Greek to have their little lap-dog in the house being fed good food – but Jews certainly did not.
‘Lord,’ she replied, ‘even the dogs under the table eat the children’s crumbs.’
Is he saying, “Charity begins at home”
Galatians 6:10 “Let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers”
The original meaning was “charity (love, compassion, giving) begins in the home”
Learn to love others in the home. That’s where you learn how to do it; then you can share it around.
Let’s love and support each other – but that’s just the beginning – go on to do good to all
It’s not possible to do good to everyone at once, to respond to all the needs put before us. It’s overwhelming.
Sometimes we need to set priorities.
These are the people I can help first
I can try to help these people but can’t take on something additional right now
We need to help people know WHY we are helping them – it’s because of the Gospel of Jesus and in his name
Jesus did – he had his calling set before him and could not have distractions.
Was Jesus testing her faith?
His responses to her certainly did test her
Did she have faith? Her persistence showed that she did
Did she have humility? She even accepted humiliation!
And if Jesus was testing her – she passed.
Is this a parable inaction – How to ask Jesus for what we need? If so, then…
Ask him for what you need – and be persistent, urgent; mean it
Remember that if he gives you what you need there may be an impact on others. Maybe their needs come first. He can do everything at once – but there may be an order in which things should be done.
Note that Jesus’ priority was not to help people but to call them to repentance and access into the Kingdom of Heaven – and that should be our priority, too.
What if the answer is “why should I?” Remember
We “deserve” nothing from Jesus
We have no “rights” to claim
Why did Jesus answer her prayer?
Out of compassion for the mother and child
In response to her passion and humility
This woman understood she had no basis on which to ask Jesus to give her what she asked; Jesus as good as pointed this out to her
Why does Jesus answer our prayer?
Because he can! He is the one for whom and through whom all things were made and by whom all things hold together. He is King of Kings, Lord of Lords.
He is the one who died on the Cross and was raised from the dead the victorious Lord.
He is the one who offers us forgiveness for our wrongs, our rebellion, our impurity, our sin.
He is the one who changes us, brings us into a family with God the Father, introducing us to the Father, speaking on our behalf to Almighty God
If there is to be any hope that Jesus will answer our prayers then we must
Be humble enough to confess we need the forgiveness he offers but which we do not deserve – even to being humiliated by the reality of our situation
Accept the forgiveness only he can offer us
Submit obediently to him as the Lord, the ruler of our life
Live persistently, as consistently as we can with the Spirit of Jesus in and with us
Pray, even without ceasing!, knowing he hears and will respond, even if it’s only with the scraps under the table!
